How can we celebrate Valentine's Day without being cheesy?
Following a little poll we did on our social media platforms this week, we found that it was pretty even split of you that celebrate Valentine’s Day and those of you that feel it's all too much. For me, it’s never been a day i’ve particularly liked and certainly never celebrated in a big way. However a few years ago, a friend reminded me that I didn’t need to indulge in all the commercially driven, bells and whistles side of the day to mark it. Simply using it as a little reminder to stop and cherish your loved ones is enough. With roots in ancient Rome and christianity, today’s celebrations (for our followers at least) are simple, home made delights that are push back against the cheesy side of the day that still adorn some shop windows.
From hand made cards and gifts, to a surprise visit, a winter picnic, or hidden letter; there are lots of ways you can show you care without the expensive, cheesy cliches. Here are some of my favourite things that i’ve either gifted, received or ideas friends have shared with me…. all of which are sure to have your partner, friend and loved ones feeling adored.
Regardless of where you stand on Valentines Day, it's safe to say the commercial side of the day can be OTT, so how can we celebrate Valentines Day without being too cheesy?
It seems fewer people than ever are celebrating Valentine’s Day, but maybe we have forgotten that it can, simply be, a perfectly timed occasion to take some time to nourish your relationships, indulge in the simple pleasures that make us happy..... safe in the knowledge that the days of a dozen red roses and a box of chocolates (all astronomically marked up in price) are over.
A hand written card or letter - As a stationery and card designer, I guess this one goes without saying, but don’t get drawn in by the digital era of moon pig and such like, a hand printed, hand written card will be more appreciated and treasured. Better yet, pop it in the post, a card through the letterbox has an undeniable tangibility, a sense of intrigue, warmth and excitement that you can’t beat. (Especially if you live with them and they are not expecting it)
Run a warm Bath - After a long day (let’s also remember its a Monday this year) coming home to a warm bath with their favourite salts and scents is perfect way to show you care. This is a wonderful ritual for self love and care too.
Talking and Listening - Taking time to communicate with friends, family and loved ones is so important. We can all be guilty of spending too much time on our phones, watching box sets or not being present with loved ones. Take time to stop and listen. Whether you choose to pick up the phone and call an old friend, surprise a loved one for lunch, or turn off the TV and really talk to your partner, our time spent truly communicating is critical for healthy relationships.
Choose 5 of your partners best traits, tell them, and tell them why you love them. You can also leave the little reminders around the house for them to catch them by surprise. This can also be a lovely conversation starter… reminisce about your 5 best memories together, 5 favourite holidays, 5 loveable idiosyncrasies….. you get the gist.
As over 88% of you will be celebrating Valentine's day at home this year, pick a favourite recipe and cook alongside your partner. Make the cooking part of the experience and time spent together. Or pick a course each and make their favourite food then cosy up for a winter picnic on the floor with candles and blankets.
Wishing you all a happy, healthy Valentine’s Day this year, free from the easy, cheesy options you might find in the shops and full of enriching conversation, romantic, heart-felt love letters and a greater sense of togetherness. (If you need any tips on what to write, we have a lovely tips on How to Write a Valentines Card as well as a bit of inspiration from Jonny Cash's love letter to June Carter.)